The Story of VIC, Founder PAFAA (www.pafaa.org.uk)On this page you will read about some of the aftermath that follows these
types of accusations. These are based on my own personal experience, and the
experiences of others in this position, but they should not be taken as
being typical. It could be that you may have none of these, or worse than
these. Each individuals experience will be just that, individual. I make no
apologies for the fact that they may be upsetting to some people, or for the
fact that while writing them, the tears are streaming down my face.
Complete and irrevocable breakdown of the family unit. In my case, my
daughter taken into the care? of Social Services, and placed at the other
end of the country. My son treated like a social outcast by what were his
closest friends. My ex wife sacked from her job as classroom assistant at
the local J+I school.
Loss of my business due to being unable to function on anything but the most
basic level. Over 18 months spent on the benefits system due to ill health
following a breakdown.
Relying on 'happy' pills just to be able to survive
on a day to day basis.
Loss of family home, divorce, financial ruin. I estimate the financial cost
to me to be at least £100,000.
I did not take anything from the divorce,
instead, making sure that my ex had a house, bought and paid for in which to
raise the children.
Loss of friends and associates you may have known for years, rejected by
your own bloodline family, suspension or dismissal from your place of work.
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